Tug-n-pull
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Was given my oldest son Will "now in the Air Force, grad from high school with honors never been in any trouble" a good whooping over something he knew better than to do. Say the 3rd grade or so. After the cry was about over he looked at me and said my teacher said if you ever hurt me to call 911 and they will put you in jail!!!! Oh my what do you then, how do you act?
Go get the phone hand it to em and tell em, If you feel I was unfair here it is just dial 911 and tell the person who answers to come get me. How ever if you feel you deserved the spanking you got and know what you did was wrong then if I were you I would reconsider maken the call cause I will not be here to take care of you, I will be in Jail. Do what you must!!
A few years later in life I came up with an even better ways to punish him. I had him to spank me for something stupid he did. I told him it could not hurt near as much to have my butt beat as it did to know what he did, with him knowing better. I had to force him to hit me, I was not the one with the tears that time. For me to take the punishment for his act at his hand made a big impact. pardon the pun! Raisen good kids only requires you to love and spend time with them. Know what they are doing and being a force in their lives. I know and listen to the music they like and what food they don't like. I pal around with their friends and know what size shoe they both wear. If you can just get to know the kids they have no choice but to know you in return. There are so many familys that just have no idea who each other is. Thus we have the above problems.
One other word My kids are not saints, heck fire they aint even above average as far as kids in this area go. They get on my nerves and I could kill em from time to time but we know each other and love each other and get along. That is all you can do. tug
Go get the phone hand it to em and tell em, If you feel I was unfair here it is just dial 911 and tell the person who answers to come get me. How ever if you feel you deserved the spanking you got and know what you did was wrong then if I were you I would reconsider maken the call cause I will not be here to take care of you, I will be in Jail. Do what you must!!
A few years later in life I came up with an even better ways to punish him. I had him to spank me for something stupid he did. I told him it could not hurt near as much to have my butt beat as it did to know what he did, with him knowing better. I had to force him to hit me, I was not the one with the tears that time. For me to take the punishment for his act at his hand made a big impact. pardon the pun! Raisen good kids only requires you to love and spend time with them. Know what they are doing and being a force in their lives. I know and listen to the music they like and what food they don't like. I pal around with their friends and know what size shoe they both wear. If you can just get to know the kids they have no choice but to know you in return. There are so many familys that just have no idea who each other is. Thus we have the above problems.
One other word My kids are not saints, heck fire they aint even above average as far as kids in this area go. They get on my nerves and I could kill em from time to time but we know each other and love each other and get along. That is all you can do. tug