i agree with what johnny said about parenting. with everything that goes on in the world today, the most important thing in the upbringing of children is their parents or guardians (as i believe it always has been). parents need to be there to teach their kids wrong from right. when i was a kid, i wasnt allowed to watch beavis and butthead, with good reason. but sometimes when i was at my friend's houses or home alone i'd sneak a peek. nothing wrong with that. kids are mischievous, they are going to do things they are told not to do because they're told not to do it.
think about it in this light....everyone remembers the unfortunate incident that happened at columbine high school a few years back. after that there was a public outcry against all things violent. everyone wanted to look to the media for blame, but nobody wanted to consider poor parenting. people are quick to point fingers at everyone but themselves, and parents stick together (just like teams, or kids, or jeepers) the matrix movie had just been released, and violent video games were also blamed for the cause of this. lets get this straight, those two kids were not the norm. there was something seriously wrong with them, and thats too bad. i've seen the matrix, i used to play doom, i play halo on my xbox, but i'm not going out and shooting people and killing aliens :wink:. and this is what people fail to realize, this is where the parents come into play. to any normal kid, those things are not going to make them more or less violent, it is the kids that need some kind of help in the first place that are affected by this. maybe it was something as simple as those kids not getting enough love/attention from their parents, should the rest of society be handicapped for something like that? no. (hey white hangs out here and talks to us, yet he still drives a chevy :roll: it must have been his parents that taught him wrong :wink
listen...if kids want to see porn, they'll get it. hell they can watch the scrambled channel and think they saw a boob, or pick up a national geographic. if they want to hear swears in music, they'll find a way to hear it. if they want to see violence, they'll go to a friend's house with more lenient parents. what they do after they see it is up to the parents, its up to them being involved in their kids lives.
let us not use sensorship as another crutch to babysit our kids for us. people need to be more involved with their children. the tube is not a babysitter. nor is the radio in the car. use the time in your car to talk to your child, about their day or anything else, let something play in the background if needed. when you're at home....tv is fine. let your kids watch it, god knows i've watched plenty, but just regulate it. not to the extent that you have to watch every second of tv with them, but set some guidelines, and make sure they're followed.
people must be involved enough to trust their children. and NO, your child will not always do exactly what you tell them, but they might make you proud with some decisions they make after they do something wrong. some stat shows that an overwhelming majority (not sure of the numbers) of underage kids drink, surprise surprise :roll: this does not mean parents have to give up the battle on underage drinking, but teach them right from wrong. if your kid calls you for a ride home from a party, are you going to be mad that they were there and drinking in the first place? of course you are. but arent you going to be more proud that they had the fortitude and the sense of mind to call you and admit to their wrong rather than trying to drive home themselves? its things like this that can show the parents that their children trust them, and in return the parents should trust the children.
it all comes down to parenting. you cant be there all the time. you might not catch them trying a cigarette, or trying alcohol. you might not catch them from finding pornography. and most people would be surprised at the words their children use when they're around their friends and not their parents, but hey, this is part of growing up. i'm sure that 99% of you in here that cry for more sensorship and freedom infringement tried somet things when they were young that they shouldnt have. i'm sure they heard things or saw things that they shouldnt have. and i'm sure that most of them turned out to be law abiding citizens and positive contributors to society. your parents raised you, and they did a good job, do the same for your children, dont leave it up to government regulations.
and FINALLY, for those of you adults who are concerned about howard stern, but are not concerned because of children, let it go. if you're over 18, you have the inate ability to change the radio station. you can switch the channel on the tv, and you can choose which magazines or movies you buy. then do it! use your freedom of choice. but dont take away from the choices of other people. i dont like howard stern, but i dont mind him either, he's there for ratings, nothing else. ratings = money, and that is all he cares about, dont let anything else fool you. its a capitalistic society, and lets keep it that way. if you dont like him, give someone else the ratings, and maybe they'll take over as the king of morning radio.