huh??? so because your friend doesn't know when to get out of the skinny pedal, and apperntly has a unsafe cage, it's a bad motor? the incline and his wheel base would be more to blame than a motor if we wanted to point the blame else where then bad driving. I hope the kids were OK, if not, that blows.
as for chevy motors, 17 in one season, while this be believable, if I were you, I would search for a new motor builder and not a different motor. The SBC is in my opinion one the best designed engines for durability and efficiency that was ever built. probably why they were used pretty much unchanged from 1956-2002.
I've done a lot of swaps, a carbed 350 is cheaper than a 4.0. I just finished a 4.0 swap and it does cost more, if you retain the GM drive train. while it is possible to spen dthe $$ for a conversion bell to put a 350 in front of a ax 15 per say, it would be pointless and a waste of money when a stronger nv4500 or sm 4XX will bolt in. But opinions will vary.