finally put the skid plate drop kit on. it almost completely got rid of the vibration so maybe a washer or two more and it will be completely smooth.
and learned the t-case shift level needs a drop too, or a cable replacement instead of the z linkage. i will try the bracket first and go from there. this was completely disconnected so i think when it rolled, the transmission slid sideways and linkage was knocked out of place. with the skid drop though, its not inline anymore, anyways so.. we shall see how it goes though