Snitty
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i'll have to say.. it takes quite a bit for me to go public with my problems.. i'm always the one dispensing the encouraging words...
Trust is a very important thing to me.. and i regretably did something to lose just that from someone very dear to me... and to whom i am/was very dear as well... i was stricken with an opportunity to get into some personal information of this person.. and that evil thing we call curiosity influenced me to think about getting into it... well, i wasn't quite being the man Snitty really is, and I grabbed it... and my conscience soon told me that that was not what I should be doing... then I quickly backed away from it, knowing that it wasn't for me, and that i didn't want part of it anymore... well... in that process, i guess i left some traces of doing so... and i didn't do a good job of reversing my deed...
the worst part of it... two days ago, when i had a chance to confess when it was brought up, i didn't quite do so as i should, avoiding a full forthcoming. i guess i was hoping to let the whole thing die away because i didn't go through with the curious act. then yesterday, it came up again, and i did fess up. unfortunately too late though, just as evidence was coming forth. and at that moment, i felt that i had let go of my entire life.
this person is the world to me. this is a person who felt that they could trust nobody, and i was finally earning their trust. without this person's trust, i feel i have no character whatsoever. every grain of anything that i have earned, is lost. and it doesn't seem that i will ever be given another chance to redeem myself because of it. i took pride in accomplishing that trust. that curiosity started to get to me, and i backed out of that BECAUSE of that exact reason, whether or not it was to be found out, i did not want to go behind that person's back for ANYTHING. there would have been NO payoff to do so, and i came to my senses and got out of that boat. i thought i felt terrible then... pshh... i had no idea what terrible was... i now truly know the feeling of regret.
I have lived my life trying to be the best man i could be. and at one point, i forget who that man is, and start to do something stupid... i soon thought "i can't do this, i DONT do this"... i thought i would get out of it before i did any damage to that person, myself, or what was between us. but it appears that the damage was already done. that person's trust is equally important to me as my own life is. i can't live as ME if i can't have trust, its too precious.
A person who could trust nobody, who has been scarred with broken trust their whole life, finally started to feel security in me... and i ruined it... it only takes that one time... i can only pray that i can have a chance to have a thread to hold on to in order to pull that back to me... i can't live with myself having this going on... i have no idea what to do
please, everyone here... take it from me... do not make this sort of mistake... if someone trusts you, NEVER EVER do ANYTHING to betray that. and if someone doesn't trust you.. do everything in your power to try to gain that... and never lose it... the value of your life on earth is very related to your character.... don't ruin it
sorry to ramble.. i'm very hurt by what happened... and i can't live with myself because of it... i'm not even being me
i'll have to say.. it takes quite a bit for me to go public with my problems.. i'm always the one dispensing the encouraging words...
Trust is a very important thing to me.. and i regretably did something to lose just that from someone very dear to me... and to whom i am/was very dear as well... i was stricken with an opportunity to get into some personal information of this person.. and that evil thing we call curiosity influenced me to think about getting into it... well, i wasn't quite being the man Snitty really is, and I grabbed it... and my conscience soon told me that that was not what I should be doing... then I quickly backed away from it, knowing that it wasn't for me, and that i didn't want part of it anymore... well... in that process, i guess i left some traces of doing so... and i didn't do a good job of reversing my deed...
the worst part of it... two days ago, when i had a chance to confess when it was brought up, i didn't quite do so as i should, avoiding a full forthcoming. i guess i was hoping to let the whole thing die away because i didn't go through with the curious act. then yesterday, it came up again, and i did fess up. unfortunately too late though, just as evidence was coming forth. and at that moment, i felt that i had let go of my entire life.
this person is the world to me. this is a person who felt that they could trust nobody, and i was finally earning their trust. without this person's trust, i feel i have no character whatsoever. every grain of anything that i have earned, is lost. and it doesn't seem that i will ever be given another chance to redeem myself because of it. i took pride in accomplishing that trust. that curiosity started to get to me, and i backed out of that BECAUSE of that exact reason, whether or not it was to be found out, i did not want to go behind that person's back for ANYTHING. there would have been NO payoff to do so, and i came to my senses and got out of that boat. i thought i felt terrible then... pshh... i had no idea what terrible was... i now truly know the feeling of regret.
I have lived my life trying to be the best man i could be. and at one point, i forget who that man is, and start to do something stupid... i soon thought "i can't do this, i DONT do this"... i thought i would get out of it before i did any damage to that person, myself, or what was between us. but it appears that the damage was already done. that person's trust is equally important to me as my own life is. i can't live as ME if i can't have trust, its too precious.
A person who could trust nobody, who has been scarred with broken trust their whole life, finally started to feel security in me... and i ruined it... it only takes that one time... i can only pray that i can have a chance to have a thread to hold on to in order to pull that back to me... i can't live with myself having this going on... i have no idea what to do
please, everyone here... take it from me... do not make this sort of mistake... if someone trusts you, NEVER EVER do ANYTHING to betray that. and if someone doesn't trust you.. do everything in your power to try to gain that... and never lose it... the value of your life on earth is very related to your character.... don't ruin it
sorry to ramble.. i'm very hurt by what happened... and i can't live with myself because of it... i'm not even being me