I have a cousin who was heartbroken to the point of being suicidal when she found she couldn't have children. She has since adopted two, and is the happiest woman on earth. I don't advocate having unprotected sex and just giving up the end results, but there are times when giving a child for adoption is really the best option, whether it is because of health, psychological, or financial reasons, it should be in the child's best interest and not the parent's best interest. Had that woman carried all three to term, and made the decision to put one, two, or all up for adoption, she would have made someone else, like my cousin, very, very happy. I'll go with the previous statement, though: If you don't want, or can't take care of kids, keep your freakin' knees together! I am unable to have children of my own. For a long time, that embarrassed me, but now I know it's God's will. I can accept it now. I'll just wait for my step-son and his wife to give me grandkids!