I would go also for TJ or Cherokee, I've few females with orange and gold color. Keep educating yourself first, the best one is surely on your way, welcome!
Yeah, sounds great deal with that good looking jeep. Can't think of any other issues, maybe test her for smoothness in riding, especially when accelerating.
We rarely use the jeep winch with cable but very useful on our atv and cable just doing right especially when using very often. Synthetic one is interesting, especially for its lighter weight.
Some people here prefer for lift on off-roading but some justify coil spacer is much better.
For wheels, you might want to check few good brands such as Black Rock, Hostile Wheels or Pro Comp, see Jeep Wheels